Another highlight was Intan’s surprise birthday celebration. It was my first time, I guess, I was so determined to prepare my friend’s birthday surprise. The reason was classic tho… I was paid by her boyfriend to prepare the event..
Oh my God. of course NO!
i did it because I’m a best friend of her. she never have a birthday surprise party in these past 5 years. (poor intan) as she always stay in Turki most of the time during summer while everybody was back to Indonesia so… lucky for her, me as her best friend, stay in Turkey this summer.*senyum nyebelin*
Anyway talking about best friend. I’ve thought about this apparently… Best friend. What is best friend? What makes someone becomes best friend? What criteria is needed to define somebody as best friend? (sounds that I’m so complicated, I guess, but honestly I do ask this to myself *tears*) The reason why do I concern about this is because by the time and my life has changed, I realize that I lose some people that used to be called as “my best friend”.
I think we all once have this friend that we feel like we’re just match emotionally and thought will be friends forever but then the fact is we are ended up by seeing each other only through instagram stories and no more quality time together. It just feels so wrong, something bad has ruined the relationship. Either your place is replaced by someone else, the each other’s personality we just don’t like that later we find out, the grudge that we hold towards other which make us only want to keep the distance, simply because you don’t want to cross the line and be fake around them.
Gonna be honest tho that I’m so… so… sad to feel this. To see the “best friends” that used to be the closed ones have just become someone else. Someone who shares their happiness with others and make you feel like an outcast.
I’m not blaming or complaining but wondering if I unconsciously have done the same things to others. At least now I realize that keep in touch, be a good friend does matter. Everyone cannot be “best friend” but they are still friend. So… yeah… it’s okay.
Moral Stories : don’t be too eazy peazy declaring who is your best friends, especially in social media . Real best friend takes time after ups and downs. Never show off on social media telling people someone is your best friend before you’ll see what drama coming up soon between you two.
btw here are some pictures of Intan's birthday
pictures credit to Isa Raynica Damarcha
place OT cafe & Bistro Kizilay, Ankara Turkey.
thanks to Isa, Alvin and Bagas for participating.
Wita, Meida, Ridwan