Have you ever been in the condition that everything always seemed so wrong and those things made you upset? That condition when you put too much things to your mind and too much tabs were opened in your mind? Well, i am sure that we have been there and considered that is normal. Sometimes we forget how te enjoy our life and prefer to be alone because we don't want to share the bad vibrate to people. Mostly we think that being alone may be one of the solution when we are sad. However, being alone somehow is not the right solution. There is another solution that is easy to do; Smile. It might be seemed hard to smile if we are not in a good mood but the most popular advice when we are sad is to smile. Sometimes we are just being sceptical but just try to smile as real as we can; give your best smiles. Try to enjoy the small facts behind a smile. Actually, forcing a smile can boost our mood and relieve stress. But i won't suggest you to give a fake smiles because fake smiles just make it worst. We don't want to be a fake person right? So, we can start by doing something that we love that can make us happy. It might be watching a funny video, talking with someone you love or just eat some chocolate and forget your diet program for a while. But i suggest to eat only dark chocolate, because endorphins, a chemical that induce happiness is also released when we eat dark chocolate. Let's think of smiles as an exercise. When smiling people attend to use up to 53 muscles in face. A simple smile only take 5 muscles. And smiling is easier than frowning which need at least 11 facial muscles. Smiles are contagious also. When someone see another people smile, their muscles automatically will twitched into smiles. Smile is a universal sign if happiness. Even babies are born with the ability to smile. New born can smile during their sleep even though they never learn how to do it. Since smile is more attractive than any other makeup, smiles can also help us to increase our career. Smiling people are considered to be more sociable and confidence. But still, don't ever give a fake smile. Try to give your best smile as bedt as you can.
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I am in drawing mood nowadays. No matter how many homework that i have, when i wanna draw something, i always just do it. I feel like to draw is such a treatment for boosting my mood.Yeah, It works sometimes. So, here my first time illustrating my friend, Ruby. Hopefully she loves it. By the way,I won't explain anything about the illustration like why do i sketch ruby with thorns on her head or why there is tears and diamond on her cheeks but there is no eyes on the picture. Well, i admit that there is a freedom in art. I don't think that we can judge whether an art is pretty or ugly, it depends on whose perspective. So, i think rather than i explain my illustration, i will let your imaginantion infere my drawing. Feedback is really appreciated tho... :)) Thank you!
So today i felt so upset about myself after realizing that my capability of Turkish Languange is still far away from advance. Even though i have been living in Turkey for almost 2 years, i don't see any significantly improvement instead i can reduce saying 'şey' when i speak turkish. Yeah, 'şey' is somehow used as 'uhm...' when people speak English. Well, this morning is the worst moment that i really feel bad for myself. In Turkish Class, i only could write 1 paragraph in listening section while my friend could write 3 or 4 paragraph instead. Not only because i couldn't understand well the listening things but also because i was lack of capability in transfering ideas from my mind into a writing in a limit time. I die... I dont think i can work under pressure and i know it will not be tolerated. I don't feel bad because of people who smarter than me instead i feel bad of my self why i couldn't get done something as well as people have done. I always wondering where have i been? What have i done? And it's often depressing when i realize that i don't get done everything well. And then, magical things happened. When i was scrolling down in pinterest i found a picture with its quote written in. Such a relief, my feeling is getting better than before. Rather than being less insecure, i feel more motivated. So, i have decided that i ough to improve my Turkish Languange. One of the steps is START READING TURKISH BOOK. And here it is The Chosen Book :D Please wish me luck. I do need to know this langange very well in order to survive continueing my studyvlife in Turkey. Moreover, also for my future career. Chin up Witaaaa! My last time watching Korean drama series was in the last september. I had so much spare time because i have not started my school yet at that time. Honestly, watching a korean drama series or reality shows seems like drinking cups of tea for me. Yeap! I can't stop a.k.a addicted. Just if i have not had think that my study is going to start and i need to be focus, i may have been watching hundreds of their episodes until nowadays. I am not exagerating but you will know that feeling if you have already watched at least one of them. Trust me. Well, here i have something to tell. Just in few days ago i saw my friend was posting a picture of new korean reality show called Abnormal Summit on her social media. The picture seemed so interesting for me because there Is 14 attractive foreigner men was standing up in the picture. I thought it could be an interesting show because they are featuring foreign people. Furthermore, my friend wrote it as 'must-watched' as the caption. Too dare, right after i surfed about it, i watched their first episode in the middle exam week and i have not finished my homework yet. However, i did not regret. Yet, i did enjoy the show. The show was entirely boosting my mood. I was amazed by their capability of speaking korean. Imagine, they are 11 different foreigners who speak korean fluently. They are from USA, Canada, London, France, Belgium, Italy, Turkey, Australia, China, Japan and even Ghana. I may say this is one of a full diversity summit show that i have ever watched. Watching them discussing sometimes debating really made my day. Wondering how did they learn korean so they can speak that fluently. Honestly, i found it is hard for me to learn a foreign languange, especially turkish. But since i watched Abnormal Summit Show, i think i have that confidence again. I believe that one day, i can speak turkish and another foreign languange better than today as long as i keep learning and practicing. Believe in myself is the first thing people should do in chasing their dream. See... How much this show has been boosting my mood. I am planning to manage my time so i can watch this show once a week. To sum up, i might say that you have to give this Abnormal Summit Show a chance. Don't worry! You will not find any boys crying scene or rainy romantic moment in this show instead learning a bucket of new cultures. If you don't have time to watch nowadays, let's have a look to this review article about the show. I remember in one rainy day, when i was waiting in a bus stop, an old woman came and sat after me. She stared at me and i answered her curiousity by smiling until she asked...
“why do you cover your head?” ***** My Name is Wita Koto. I was born in a country full of diversity with its 240 million population, 5 official religions and hundreds of different ethnicity living peacefully called, Indonesia. I got triple majority status as a girl, a Muslim and an Indonesian which is literally beneficial. Muslim women are not supposed to face any problem to pursue any career in Indonesia. They can be a Teacher, Doctor, Police even a President with scarf on their head. The things that have never happened in the west even in the Muslim country which is still somehow taboo. Everyone has a dream, passion and hobby that fills their life with purpose. For me, it is design. I don’t remember when it’s started but i think i have loved designing all of my life. I started drawing when i was kid in kindergarten and dreamed i would become a professional painter. But i stopped drawing when i was 11 for some reasons. By the time i was growing up become a teenager, i knew that i still loved drawing, designing and stuff. Then, i decided to study Textile and Fashion Design. first step on looking for my path. I have once been underestimated by some people. They were wondering what a girl with veil on her head will understand about art, design and fashion. Yeah, I may looked conservative by the veil on my head. However, I don’t care. What i know is just keep doing. I am not only interesting in fashion generally but also interesting in the art process behind it. Dress making, Clothing making... They can not lie. Fashionists put so much effort in the process to make the best dress they have ever made, to make a master piece. This made me wonder, what can i do to put my faith as a Muslim woman into my master piece. Put faith into fashion sounds peculiar but this is what i want to do. I want to make a kind of dress that every time girls (especially Muslim girls) wear it, they still feel free and safe as a human being even they are covered. I want girls not only feel pretty when they wear my designed dress, but also believe that the more good looking they are, the more good character should they have. Fashion may cover the body but should not cover the identity. Fashion should underline, to clearly state that Fashion is not a tool meant to make an ugly thing beautiful, it is meant only to magnify the beauty that already exist. Believe that a girl itself is beauty. Girls, don’t be into trends. Don’t make fashion own you, you have to decide what you are. Don’t dress to impress instead express yourself. Girls should be their selves as best as they are. There is no need to be perfect to inspire people. Let yourself be yourself. Good Luck! Hallo Guys! How are you? It has been a while not write any post in my blog. I am sorry for not sorry, writing a post in my blog seems not to be my priority recently but seriously i have a willingness to make it up. I will be posting a reflection journal as routine as i can since i got task from Critical Reading and Thinking lessons this semester. Wohooo so excited! me and my classmates in th Critical Reading and Thinking Class
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